但这几年我的体会是, 孩子不喜欢写的原因是:

1. 手懒, 写多了手累, 就能写多短写多短. 尤其是男孩, 没耐性, 字又写得潦草.
2. 记不清细节
3. 怕写出真实感觉后会尴尬(尤其是抱怨时或不好的感觉时)或被批评.
4. 孩子小, 思路不清, 写出来没有细节没条理.
5,6,7...

改进的方法:
1. 用电脑打字, 至从我同意让他用电脑写后, 文章就长多了. 修改也容易.
2. Trip之前我回提醒他回家要写作文,让他留心有趣的事, 有时在旅途中提点建议:\"This is interesting, may be you\'d like to include it in your writing, etc\".
3. 好与不好的情绪都加以鼓励, 能写出来都是好的. 不要在内容上影响孩子.
4. 慢慢地我发现细节是有了, 但条理不清, 用词不多, 这一点是最难的. 我和他一起写过改过几篇作文, 开始我告诉他如果是我的作文, 我会这样写... 多改几次后他就看出条理了, 我也参与得越来越少了.
5,6,7...

写完了让他带到学校请老师提建议, 老师都很支持, 让他读给全班同学听. 他受到鼓励, 下次又会写的用心一些.

男孩子表达能力本身比女孩子弱, 我觉得这比学好数学更重要. 将来工作后, 口头和书面的表达能力更是成功的先决条件. 工作中我见过太多的例子, 有条有理的演说能力和E_MAIL能掩盖住很多专业上的不足, 呵呵... 看看下面这个, 逗你乐乐~~

Formula to achieve more than 100%
An e-mail from a friend:

We have all been to those meetings where someone wants \"more than 100%.\" Well here\'s how you do that. Here\'s how you can achieve 103%. First of all, here\'s a little math that might prove helpful in the future. How does one achieve 100% in LIFE? Begin by noting the following:

If : A = 1 B = 2 C = 3 D = 4 E = 5 F = 6 G = 7 H = 8 I = 9 J = 10 K = 11 L = 12 M = 13 N = 14 O = 15 P = 16 Q = 17 R = 18 S = 19 T = 20 U = 21 V = 22 W = 23 X = 24 Y = 25 Z = 26

Then: H A R D W O R K = 8+1+18+4+23+15+18+11 = Only 98%

Similarly, K N O W L E D G E = 11+14+15+23+12+5+4+7+5 = Only 96%

But interesting (and as you\'d expect), A T T I T U D E = 1+20+20+9+20+21+4+5 = 100%.....
This is how you achieve 100% in LIFE.

But EVEN MORE IMPORTANT TO NOTE (or REALIZE), is B U L L S H I T = 2+21+12+12+19+8+9+20 = 103%

So now you know what all those high-priced consultants, upper management, and motivational speakers really mean when they want to exceed 100%!

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