網友討論: 請弟兄姐妹出主意, 一在澳洲的朋友
1314: 請弟兄姐妹出主意, 一在澳洲的朋友來伊妹兒說在網上找到了高中時的Sweet heart在美國，已婚。還愛着朋友，願離婚回到我那朋友身邊。朋友結過婚，因久久未能出國而遭離棄。朋友尋求建議。另朋友有去教會，但還未信主。他的“SweetHeart” 信仰未知。
I am looking for wisdom of constructive loving words.
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Yuehanmiao: 朋友有去教會，但還未信主? How about you?! if you 信主, why bother bring this piece of BS here 尋求建議??!!
a_Peter: This is SINNER Miao's true self :) just like me(if we are not in God's grace),
It is just like Bible said , all of us are sinners.
There is such thing as 老實人, Good man ...
And thanks to Bother Miao, setting a "good example" for us to understand the "sinner" concept in the Bible :)
I wish it is helpful to you as well :) ?
1314: thank you brother, I can not reply to my friend with the attitude that this is a piece of BS.
I am looking for wisdom of constructive loving words.
Peace,
Yuehanmiao:You are more righteous than I, I apologize for rebuking you that you should not bring this question up, since I knew you are a mature brother(/sister).
Anyway, no advices based on Bible would make sense to your friend if he does not believe in Jesus Christ,
in secular world, my niece got divoced after 3 years marriage in order to marry to her high school classmate, one of my high school classmates
married to his middle school sweetheart who had to get divoced her first husband (they had already had a 5 years old boy), both of the two coulples are fine with their new marriage, it seems they are very happy.
Unbelievable to me but they chose to do that.
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Xunc: 高中時的,遠了點,畢竟拆人家家不好.還會被懷疑有出國動機
南山看客: 看仔細了"在澳洲的朋友"...
當然, 這位"澳洲的朋友"也還真的很莫名其妙, 不問自己心裡"愛不愛", 卻去想別的什麼. 本客一言斃之, 這事兒不成.
明顯地心裡對"愛不愛"拿不準, 所以要靠別的什麼東西作個依靠, 比如, 教會裡的教導啦, 擰拆XX不拆YY的傳統啦, 早就說了, 愛是一種能力, 沒能力就別找藉口. 人大衛王站在陽台上極目天舒的時候, 有發伊妹兒到處打聽麼? 人家晚上的禱告都是充滿能力的禱告, "主啊, 天上的父, 鄰居的那個妞你一定要幫我搞到手, 謝謝了先."
Xunc: 鷹眼南山
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a_Peter: Tell Him what King David had paid for 拔士巴. (Read the Bible with him)
I thought we had the discussion here a while ago :)
Maybe David and 拔士巴 were kindergarden sweet-heart too,
Maybe David loves 拔士巴 ,
But all these do not matter , as long as it is a SIN,
For every SIN there will be a price to pay!
Wake him up !
南山看客: But not tell the story of Job at the same time
否則, 萬一他把大衛的家庭變故和約伯家的災難都當成"化妝的祝福"就壞了.
約伯家的LP, 孩子死了就死了, HAPPY ENDING...
大衛家的LP, 孩子死了就死了, 一樣的HAPPY ENDING, 反正還有所羅門剩下來成就"空前絕後"的智慧呢.
a_Peter: 點名批評南山君. JOB孩子的死亡是誰造成的呢？ 是在罪中的撒旦！
JOB 最終的拯救(HAPPY-ENDING)又是誰呢？是神！
DAVID 孩子的死亡是誰造成的呢？ 是 撒旦借着人裡面的罪
DAVID 最終的拯救(HAPPY-ENDING)又是誰呢？是神！
在罪的世界裡 ，犯罪的要付代價(罪的功價就是死！)，
無罪的也受苦害！(撒旦來就是要殺戮和毀壞)
我們這些為罪所害的人，為什麼一味地為罪辯護 ，而不願
意回頭求神的拯救呢？
作為資深慕道 ， 南山竟然還是停留在只看表面現象的階段.
點名批評南山,罰南山回去讀羅馬書3遍
南山看客: 俺那是友情提醒. "作為資深慕道", 我當然知道榮耀歸上帝, 拯救靠主; 罪惡歸撒蛋, 墮落靠自己.
擔心你的聽眾理解不了"化妝的祝福", 故此友情提醒一把.
a_Peter: 這樣啊. 那就先趕快賠罪， 只好罰我自己去再讀羅馬書了 :)
不過"墮落"不用"靠自己"， 因為人已經墮落了,要不我們這些
罪人雖然蒙了恩德，還是有“罪人的尾巴”露出來呢？
Candle: 你家姐妹好些沒有?
a_Peter: 好多了，謝謝燭姐關心!
Candle: 有空讓她給偶妹,偶是EXPIENCED PATIENT SOMEHOW,. 也許有類似經驗好借去使喚使喚. 那先多熬些黃芪紅棗紅糖湯輕緩地補着點氣.
a_Peter: 再謝燭姐. 不過暫時她不QUALIFY上網 ，等些時候我再轉告她...
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Wjbh: 叫他耐心等吧！等到他sweet heart的現任丈夫死了，再跟人家跑嗎！
哎！兩顆hard hearts，什麼世代？
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1314:謝謝大家的看見/建議. 如你有感動的話，我想最要緊的是為我那朋友禱告，使他也接受基督的救恩。
再次感謝。
