网友讨论: 请弟兄姐妹出主意, 一在澳洲的朋友
1314: 请弟兄姐妹出主意, 一在澳洲的朋友来伊妹儿说在网上找到了高中时的Sweet heart在美国，已婚。还爱着朋友，愿离婚回到我那朋友身边。朋友结过婚，因久久未能出国而遭离弃。朋友寻求建议。另朋友有去教会，但还未信主。他的“SweetHeart” 信仰未知。
I am looking for wisdom of constructive loving words.
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Yuehanmiao: 朋友有去教会，但还未信主? How about you?! if you 信主, why bother bring this piece of BS here 寻求建议??!!
a_Peter: This is SINNER Miao's true self :) just like me(if we are not in God's grace),
It is just like Bible said , all of us are sinners.
There is such thing as 老实人, Good man ...
And thanks to Bother Miao, setting a "good example" for us to understand the "sinner" concept in the Bible :)
I wish it is helpful to you as well :) ?
1314: thank you brother, I can not reply to my friend with the attitude that this is a piece of BS.
I am looking for wisdom of constructive loving words.
Peace,
Yuehanmiao:You are more righteous than I, I apologize for rebuking you that you should not bring this question up, since I knew you are a mature brother(/sister).
Anyway, no advices based on Bible would make sense to your friend if he does not believe in Jesus Christ,
in secular world, my niece got divoced after 3 years marriage in order to marry to her high school classmate, one of my high school classmates
married to his middle school sweetheart who had to get divoced her first husband (they had already had a 5 years old boy), both of the two coulples are fine with their new marriage, it seems they are very happy.
Unbelievable to me but they chose to do that.
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Xunc: 高中时的,远了点,毕竟拆人家家不好.还会被怀疑有出国动机
南山看客: 看仔细了"在澳洲的朋友"...
当然, 这位"澳洲的朋友"也还真的很莫名其妙, 不问自己心里"爱不爱", 却去想别的什么. 本客一言毙之, 这事儿不成.
明显地心里对"爱不爱"拿不准, 所以要靠别的什么东西作个依靠, 比如, 教会里的教导啦, 拧拆XX不拆YY的传统啦, 早就说了, 爱是一种能力, 没能力就别找借口. 人大卫王站在阳台上极目天舒的时候, 有发伊妹儿到处打听么? 人家晚上的祷告都是充满能力的祷告, "主啊, 天上的父, 邻居的那个妞你一定要帮我搞到手, 谢谢了先."
Xunc: 鹰眼南山
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a_Peter: Tell Him what King David had paid for 拔士巴. (Read the Bible with him)
I thought we had the discussion here a while ago :)
Maybe David and 拔士巴 were kindergarden sweet-heart too,
Maybe David loves 拔士巴 ,
But all these do not matter , as long as it is a SIN,
For every SIN there will be a price to pay!
Wake him up !
南山看客: But not tell the story of Job at the same time
否则, 万一他把大卫的家庭变故和约伯家的灾难都当成"化妆的祝福"就坏了.
约伯家的LP, 孩子死了就死了, HAPPY ENDING...
大卫家的LP, 孩子死了就死了, 一样的HAPPY ENDING, 反正还有所罗门剩下来成就"空前绝后"的智慧呢.
a_Peter: 点名批评南山君. JOB孩子的死亡是谁造成的呢？ 是在罪中的撒旦！
JOB 最终的拯救(HAPPY-ENDING)又是谁呢？是神！
DAVID 孩子的死亡是谁造成的呢？ 是 撒旦借着人里面的罪
DAVID 最终的拯救(HAPPY-ENDING)又是谁呢？是神！
在罪的世界里 ，犯罪的要付代价(罪的功价就是死！)，
无罪的也受苦害！(撒旦来就是要杀戮和毁坏)
我们这些为罪所害的人，为什么一味地为罪辩护 ，而不愿
意回头求神的拯救呢？
作为资深慕道 ， 南山竟然还是停留在只看表面现象的阶段.
点名批评南山,罚南山回去读罗马书3遍
南山看客: 俺那是友情提醒. "作为资深慕道", 我当然知道荣耀归上帝, 拯救靠主; 罪恶归撒蛋, 堕落靠自己.
担心你的听众理解不了"化妆的祝福", 故此友情提醒一把.
a_Peter: 这样啊. 那就先赶快赔罪， 只好罚我自己去再读罗马书了 :)
不过"堕落"不用"靠自己"， 因为人已经堕落了,要不我们这些
罪人虽然蒙了恩德，还是有“罪人的尾巴”露出来呢？
Candle: 你家姐妹好些没有?
a_Peter: 好多了，谢谢烛姐关心!
Candle: 有空让她给偶妹,偶是EXPIENCED PATIENT SOMEHOW,. 也许有类似经验好借去使唤使唤. 那先多熬些黄芪红枣红糖汤轻缓地补着点气.
a_Peter: 再谢烛姐. 不过暂时她不QUALIFY上网 ，等些时候我再转告她...
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Wjbh: 叫他耐心等吧！等到他sweet heart的现任丈夫死了，再跟人家跑吗！
哎！两颗hard hearts，什么世代？
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1314:谢谢大家的看见/建议. 如你有感动的话，我想最要紧的是为我那朋友祷告，使他也接受基督的救恩。
再次感谢。
