謝謝你在這裡說了這麼多。。。。。。其實，我何嘗不理解。愛情這個鬼玩藝兒不是1+1=2 那麼邏輯、那麼理性。“與現在的妻子自談朋友起到現在，就一直爭吵不斷。” 焉能證明另一個女人能給你更多的幸福啊！ 記得西方一位大哲說過，只活一次，等於沒有活。生活有無限的可能性，我們只能實現其中的一種。生活對於我們永遠都是沒有機會正式上演的彩排。你永遠沒有機會證實、比較到底那一種生活更好一些，因為你只有一個人生，沒法再來幾次試試。突然想起了美國詩人 Robert Frost 一首著名詩篇“The Road Not Taken ”，現抄錄給你，附顧子欣的翻譯。望你能喜歡。祝開心，重新揚起生活的風帆！

The Road Not Taken

TWO roads diverged in a yellow wood, And sorry I could not travel both And be one traveler, long I stood And looked down one as far as I could To where it bent in the undergrowth; 5 Then took the other, as just as fair, And having perhaps the better claim, Because it was grassy and wanted wear; Though as for that the passing there Had worn them really about the same, 10 And both that morning equally lay In leaves no step had trodden black. Oh, I kept the first for another day! Yet knowing how way leads on to way, I doubted if I should ever come back. 15 I shall be telling this with a sigh Somewhere ages and ages hence: Two roads diverged in a wood, and I─ I took the one less traveled by, And that has made all the difference.

未選擇的路

黃色的樹林裡分出兩條路， 可惜我不能同時去涉足， 我在那路口久久佇立， 我向着一條路極目望去， 直到它消失在叢林深處。 但我卻選了另外一條路， 它荒草萋萋，十分幽寂， 顯得更誘人、更美麗； 雖然在這兩條小路上， 都很少留下旅人的足跡； 雖然那天清晨落葉滿地， 兩條路都未經腳印污染。 呵，留下一條路等改日再見！ 但我知道路徑延綿無盡頭， 恐怕我難以再回返。 也許多少年後在某個地方， 我將輕聲嘆息把往事回顧： 一片樹林裡分出兩條路， 而我選了人跡更少的一條， 從而決定了我一生的道路。 (顧子欣譯)