谢谢你在这里说了这么多。。。。。。其实，我何尝不理解。爱情这个鬼玩艺儿不是1+1=2 那么逻辑、那么理性。“与现在的妻子自谈朋友起到现在，就一直争吵不断。” 焉能证明另一个女人能给你更多的幸福啊！ 记得西方一位大哲说过，只活一次，等于没有活。生活有无限的可能性，我们只能实现其中的一种。生活对于我们永远都是没有机会正式上演的彩排。你永远没有机会证实、比较到底那一种生活更好一些，因为你只有一个人生，没法再来几次试试。突然想起了美国诗人 Robert Frost 一首著名诗篇“The Road Not Taken ”，现抄录给你，附顾子欣的翻译。望你能喜欢。祝开心，重新扬起生活的风帆！

The Road Not Taken

TWO roads diverged in a yellow wood, And sorry I could not travel both And be one traveler, long I stood And looked down one as far as I could To where it bent in the undergrowth; 5 Then took the other, as just as fair, And having perhaps the better claim, Because it was grassy and wanted wear; Though as for that the passing there Had worn them really about the same, 10 And both that morning equally lay In leaves no step had trodden black. Oh, I kept the first for another day! Yet knowing how way leads on to way, I doubted if I should ever come back. 15 I shall be telling this with a sigh Somewhere ages and ages hence: Two roads diverged in a wood, and I─ I took the one less traveled by, And that has made all the difference.

未选择的路

黄色的树林里分出两条路， 可惜我不能同时去涉足， 我在那路口久久伫立， 我向着一条路极目望去， 直到它消失在丛林深处。 但我却选了另外一条路， 它荒草萋萋，十分幽寂， 显得更诱人、更美丽； 虽然在这两条小路上， 都很少留下旅人的足迹； 虽然那天清晨落叶满地， 两条路都未经脚印污染。 呵，留下一条路等改日再见！ 但我知道路径延绵无尽头， 恐怕我难以再回返。 也许多少年后在某个地方， 我将轻声叹息把往事回顾： 一片树林里分出两条路， 而我选了人迹更少的一条， 从而决定了我一生的道路。 (顾子欣译)