我现在很矛盾．不知道是该再试一次还是趁早放弃．
我们结婚到目前两年了．从恋爱到结婚，经常因为各种小事吵架，　冷战，僵持，愤怒，心痛，甚至摔东西．
He got an offer and went to US for study one year ago. Before he left, we had a terrible fight, and both of us
were very angry and decided to divorce. In the first few months after he left, he tried to call back, but I was still angry
and treated him bad when he called back. So he seldom called back in first few month. As time passed by, anger disappeared.
Now, he calls me once a week, we talk about life, tell each other things happen in our lives, just like common friends.
Before we notice, one year passed by. Acturally, in fact, we have been on seperation for 1 year already. Cannot drag on.
If still want to live together, I should try to go there and live with him together. If decide to give up, we should settle the paper work,
and give freedom to each other, so that both of us can begin new life earlier. Really cannot drag on.
Sometimes, I tell myself, I should not give up so easily, should try once more. I changed and learned something in this one year, maybe
we can get along this time. But sometimes, when I recalled the quarrels we had, the sad time... I really want to give up and have a new begining.
Anyone has any suggestion?