我兒子兩歲時被醫生診斷為自閉（三年前）， 主要是不說話，不肯和小朋友交往，去年七月見醫生， 醫生說可以ＣＬＯＳＥ　ＦＩＬＥ　了。　

下面兩分報告是今年幼兒園給我們的，算是警報徹底解除了。　

１，
Andrew is a quiet shy member of our class. He is starting to say good morning and use more eye contact when greeting the teachers. Good effort, Andrew.

He is following routines from the teachers. We have to encourage Andrew to listen to instructions and listen during circle time. This will help him when it is activity time. If he is called on during calendar time, he tries to participate with some coaching.

We are pleased that Andrew is asking questions of his teachers, coming up to us, looking for direction and approval.

We continue to praise Andrew, give him hugs, use consistent language and directions to make him feel confident and secure in the C Room.

Practice at home, counting talking in sentences would be good modelling too! Keep working hard, Andrew!

Jan. 2010

２，
We are happy to see that Andrew has become more comfortable in the C Room. He initiates conversations all the time with his teachers and has become much more verbal. Andrew also participates more during circle time without being called upon and he is more confident in his abilities to answer questions. Great improvement, Andrew!

We have also seen a lot of progress in Andrew’s math and reading readiness skills this term. This is due to extra practice from home and at school. Thank- you mom and dad for your help in these areas. With continued practice we are sure to see even more progress in these areas in senior Kindergarten.
Andrew has had a successful 2nd term and we are proud of how far a long he has come. Great job Andrew and have a great summer!

June, 2010

我兒子剛剛過五歲，現在開始學習寫字和背單詞了，雖說有點晚，但進步很快。　

我們的目標是：

１，　讓他開口說話。　
２，　鼓勵他交同年朋友，從一個開始
３，　讓他學會自信

一些具體做法：
１，　立馬送幼兒園，　幼兒園是最好的培訓場所

２，　取消電視，家裡兩年沒有電視，　大家都不看，直到醫生說沒問題了，我們今年才開通電視。

３，　沒有任何電子遊戲及一個人玩的玩具，　包括拼圖啥的，　其目的就是不能讓他一個人玩，要玩大家一起玩。　

４，　找一個正常的一樣大的小孩的家庭，一起出遊，保持了兩年。　

５，　不批評他只有鼓勵，任何進步都要表揚，　培養他的自信，　嘗試一切運動和活動，　只要他有興趣。

６，　不管啥活動，父母一起參加，其中一人一直保持對他的關注，　讓他有安全感，　和其他小孩玩時大人先要介入一段時間，　然後慢慢退出。

７，　回國一個月，據說有效果，　但無法考證，回來後說話明顯改善，這是事實。

８，　斷奶瓶，特別是夜奶，　改用杯子喝奶。

９，　吃飯問題，發現他在飯店吃得好，不過這個太費錢了。　不過飯店氣氛好，　有助於他適應人多地環境。

１０，　關於政府的ＰＲＯＧＲＡＭ，　只參加了一期，發現用處不大，浪費時間和精力，取消了，培訓機構就派了個人定期到幼兒園跟蹤。

１１，　上門社工，來了兩三次，發現用處不大，　還耽誤兒子上幼兒園，　也取消了。　


如果孩子兩歲時有語言障礙，應立馬看專科醫生，越早介入越容易，　每個孩子都不一樣，父母是最好的治療師，　要有耐心，　其實也沒什麼，　這邊醫生對自閉的定義很寬，　除非特別嚴重的，　一般都能恢復到正常。

一直和人用ＰＭ交流一些信息，總結了一下，就是上面這些了，　我們從來沒有對這個問題困擾過，　其中也諮詢了些有效果的家長（華人家庭，美國、歐洲的都有），　也許他根本就不是自閉，　但這個不能賭，　積極應對才是硬道理。