藤兒點評：在華人圈子裡，英文首字母縮略詞MILF的使用還談不上流行。簡單來說，MILF就是一個有家庭有孩子的已婚女人的性取向，比較貼切的中文對應被稱作[風騷辣媽 ]。如果一個風騷辣媽一接觸到自己婚外的男人就有了“來電”的感覺，她定會從施捨點小恩小惠開始，逐漸會對這個男人倍加關心和照顧，經常會有快樂和肉麻的短信或電話相約見面。如果這個男人對她一呼百應，她會千方百計地做到滴水之恩湧泉相報。[風騷辣媽]的捕獵對象常常是已婚有家室的男人，如果你屬於這一類型的男人，是否能夠抵擋得住[風騷辣媽]的色誘？

曾今，加拿大B.C .省長Christy Clark 應邀在搖滾電台節目中與聽眾互動，不幸陷入“MILF門”醜聞事件曝光，隨即演變成了一場政治風波。在北美，如果一個普通有孩子的已婚女人自由地表達自己的性取向，不會引來軒然大波。然而作為名女人，就有天壤之別了。Christy Clark 已婚有兩個孩子，難怪搖滾電台的聽眾對她“性”趣盎然。Jet FM主持人魏康姆斯(Justion"Drex" Wilcomes)去年12月中旬在節目上，代表一位聽眾向簡蕙芝提問，詢及身為「風騷辣媽」(MILF )的感覺。Christy Clark對提問報以開心一笑，居然迅速給出了自己的答案：她笑稱「風騷辣媽」（MILF）總比「饑渴熟女」(cougar)來得好。(註：後者熱衷於老牛吃嫩草。）

這次“MILF門”醜聞事件,最終導致電台Jet FM主持人魏康姆斯(Justion"Drex" Wilcomes)被資方解僱。加拿大B.C .省長 Christy Clark 應該設法幫助他找回一份電台的工作，以彰顯加拿大的言論自由。

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來源：toronto24hours.ca

MADDEAUX: Celeb moms reclaim MILF label

Sabrina Maddeaux

Tuesday, August 2, 2016 7:58:47 EDT PM

Kim Kardashian, pictured with North West, is reclaiming what it means to be a MILF.

The MILF has come a long way since Stifler’s mom. The term has long been used to mock mothers who don’t act or look their age (as defined by society) and who dare to exude sex appeal when, as we all know, moms should basically act like nuns. But today’s moms are reclaiming the word and using it to embrace their power and sexuality. The MILF movement is changing how we view motherhood and what it means to be a mom.

Women are often dismissed in our culture, but moms have it even worse. They’re ridiculed for their beauty and fashion (“mom hair,” “mom jeans”) and told that pregnancy will ruin their bodies and sex lives. When the Fashion Police talk about a pregnant celebrity on the red carpet, it sounds like they’re discussing someone struggling to overcome a terrible disease rather than growing a precious new life inside of them.

Fashion and beauty magazines often focus their tips on how to not look like a mom (for example, how to get your body back) rather than how to make motherhood sexy in and of itself. And let’s not forget how mothers are often shunned from the workplace.

Although motherhood is an essential and beautiful part of humanity, we ironically so often punish women for it.

The latest cohort of celeb moms is changing this and reclaiming the word MILF. Kim Kardashian still poses for naked selfies, Chrissy Teigen has been outspoken about “mommy shaming,” and recently Fergie released her music video for M.I.L.F.$ featuring hot moms Kim, Chrissy, Ciara and Alessandra Ambrosio, among other, strutting their stuff unapologetically. Beyoncé hasn’t toned down her lyrics or dance moves one bit — she owns being a power mom and singing about getting it on in the back of a limousine.

These women are turning the typical image of a mom on its head and empowering mothers to embrace their sexuality. Mothers across pop culture platforms are breaking free of stereotypical constraints to live fuller, more complex lives.

Mila Kunis, Kristen Bell and Kathryn Hahn star in Bad Moms, a comedy that sees three stressed-out moms ditch their daily responsibilities and enjoy a wild run of freedom. These moms are tired of society telling them how to look and act, and set themselves up for a showdown with PTA queen “perfect” mom Gwendolyn.

Sitcom moms used to do little more than nag their husbands and pack kids’ lunches. Now, they are mutlti-faceted like Winona Ryder’s character in Netflix hit Stranger Things.

“Usually the roles that you get offered — the ‘mom’ roles — are very much the mom role,” said Ryder at the Television Critics Association summer press tour. “Like standing in the doorway, [saying], ‘Oh, you kids!’ [Those roles] are only really there [to exist], so this was different because Joyce was much more than just something to service the plot.”

Finally, being a mom on and off screen is about so much more than just being a mom. Moms can be complicated, sexy, flawed and funny. If you ask me, MILFs have never looked so good.