using my broken English.

there are two forces inside believers,
one force inspired (or given) by Holy Spirit to lead a person
to do anything that God would be happy,
another force to lead a person to do anything that God dislike but this
person pleased,
without exception,
almost anything, one has to choose:
to make God happy or to make ME happy,
for each individual, there is a 平衡点,
around this 平衡点, this time to make ME happy,
other time to make God happy.

somebody believes and proclaims that what I do makes God happy,
the matter of fact is:
you are willing
but
you cannot,

(ref. Roman 7)

seeking FEELing
is an example.