Guess what they mean by itch is that it is there, not too serious to break at once, but always not comfortable. If it is totally numb, it is very bad. If it is still itchy, you still have time to make up.

Hey, don't follow my bad example, and thus why I want every couple to be couple beyond 7 years.

First of all, got to think why we get married. To have a partener, right? Second, are both sides willing to hold on the relationship? This is more important, for if one side throw it, the other side can't help much indeed.

To live alone is seemingly attractive at first, but the bitterness is always there. So the itch will be there for a while.

Please, talk, seriously, about why in the first you were together, then decide if you both care about soul mate feeling.

If money can solve anything, there is no problem. But this itchy happens to me when we both earn over 6 digits in a stable company (for say).