這是發生在國慶節期間的事，說我請是因為我去她家車接車送，加引號是因為這個請並不是我情願的，但男人怎麼也得有點風度吧，總不能飯罷溜走賴賬吧，不過是50刀而已。。
七一加拿大國慶節前幾個星期吧，我收到她的第一個email，詢問我是否還在找女友，我回信說是但私下感到很奇怪，因為我用這個信箱徵友是去年的事了。她又來信說希望我寄去照片，我回信說我不想寄照片給沒見過的人，她若願意打電話我可以給她號碼。她回信後說行。但在我寄去電話號碼後約兩周也沒接到她的電話和信件。我又發信去問，她說我的郵件出現亂碼，號碼少了一位數字。我納悶：我們通信都是英文怎麼會亂碼？難道我少打個數字？我隨之道歉並重新附上號碼。隨後我檢查一下我發去的那個郵件發現我沒打錯，難道電郵件到她的信箱出現了亂碼？英文加阿拉伯數字產生亂碼的情況還是少見。
這樣有過了幾天，在七一公假的最後一天下午，我忽然收到她的電話，開始我還沒反應過來。然後聊了一會，她着重問我的工作收入，我則沒打聽她的收入。但知道雖然都買了房子，但她的房子不論位置質量面積都比我的好，估計價格應該為我的一倍，但她沒供車。也談了一些來了多久和對（網上）交朋友的看法等。我所她若有時間可以一起去見面和咖啡聊天，她卻說一起去餐館，我說我剛吃過不久，還是喝咖啡消化一下好。當時約四點鐘，可能她還沒吃吧。又談了什麼，她說還是見面再談吧，告訴了她家的住址，我一聽就說知道那個有名的CONDO大樓。
見了面，給她拉車門上了車，我說去附近的咖啡店坐坐，她說怕喝咖啡難以入眠，還是說要去餐館吃飯。我以前也見過一些女士，沒有一個第一次見面就說要去餐館吃飯的。我想也許那些女士沒有她那麼大氣，經常下餐館。我想怎麼也應該是大家AA制，我就陪她好了。是她一意堅持去餐館的。我可沒想請他。
到了她指定的餐館，她又點了該餐館的招牌菜，邊吃邊談。吃差不多了，還剩一半多，打包算賬。總共是45元。我看錢包里只有25元，放在帳單上，但她並沒有掏錢包的舉動，就問她是否有現金。她翻了一看，說只有10元，但也沒拿出來。餐館只收現金，所以我對他們說去外面提款機取錢，她在那兒打包。我回來後付了50元，就送她回家。她也沒提任何她也應該負擔帳單的事。這時我已經隱隱感到這是個借談朋友為名白吃的女人。但也不能完全肯定，也許下次見面她會提出付賬吧。
回家後我給她寫了郵件，問她是否還願意和我見面。她第二天回信：
Thanks for knowing you a nice friend.
You are a good friend deserve good one. [ 相約加拿大:楓下論壇 www.rolia.net/forum ]
Best wishes,
我認為這很模糊，不明白她的真正意思。又給她寫道：
Thanks for your reply but pls just tell me if you want
to see me again or not.
她再也沒有任何回應。過兩天我又寫道：
pls just kindly reply to my last mail. Thank you.
她也沒回應。這種與完全證實了她的騙吃嘴臉。實際吃飯前我已經跟她說過，我以前見女友，第一次從來不吃飯，都是到咖啡廳坐坐，她只是一笑。
試想：若是見面後覺得不想再和對方下次見面，一般女子/男子都不會再和對方去餐館了。即使去也不會讓對方付賬的。好嘛，頭一次遇到這類女子，讓我長見識了。若說喝杯咖啡不算什麼，那麼50元一頓飯對大部分人即使是專業工也不是可忽略的小數目吧。 ＜ r o l i a. n e t ＞
過兩天我又給她寫了：
You haven't replied so I guess what I think is right. You are kind of lady who just wants to take advantage over a guy like me and have a meal free by meeting me. I will let you know it is not such a easy thing to pass it over. Exactly 7 days ago,during the phone talk before we meet, you suggested we would go to restaurant and I said I had just has meals and I was full. After we met at your building, I suggested we went to have a coffee and you said you never drink coffee and proposed again going to restaurant. OK, then I drove you there. But after the meal, I thought at least we would share the bill, but you said you just had $10 in purse. So my $25 was not enough,even plus your $10 (you still didn't take it out). I had to go to the nearby bank to withdraw cash. After the meal, you never mentioned of the expense of the bill (I paid $50). Then you just replied to me the next day and said I was a good man (good at paying you a meal) and disappear. How can you do this and have you ever done this before? I want to summarize the facts like this: 1-Normally a guy and a lady won't go to restaurant the first time they meet. Even if they go, they should share the bill, especially in the case that it is the lady who suggests they go to a restaurant. In our case, I just had a meal at home and just want to go out for a coffee talk; And you hadn't had a meal so you wanted to go out to have a meal free, I guess, which is true. 2- When you saw me and decided not to see me again,you wouldn't go to restaurant with me and let me pay the bill. If you did, it means you are not a good lady, but a cheap one who wants to take advantage over men. You don't care but just have a free meal and leave. 3-Even if you decided to see me again before the meal, you should sugggest we share the bill. Considering the financial situation, you had a property in a good location, much better than mine. You can't be that cheap to let me pay and then disappear, right? $50 is not a small amount. 4-Don't think you can do this kind of disgusting things over and over! I will bring the topic to the Chinese forum and let others to judge, and at the same time, reminds other guys who might meet you and buy you free meals. 5-Don't think men always are shy to talk about this and let you take advantage again and again. Tell you a truth: there is no free meal in this world. 6-I don't want others know your identity and actually I don't know your name and ph.no., just a fake email account. I just want fair comments from people and reminds other guys not to be cheated by you. 7-I will wait for your explaination. I will wait until this weekend. If you have no reply, then you can see this topic on Rolia, the so-call QingAi Youyou or KuaiLe DanShen. I will post both English and Chinese version.

a man who involuntarily bought you a meal of $50

還是沒有回應，大概她以為我和以前她騙吃過的男子一樣，會自認倒霉，羞於張揚，怕被別人笑話。哪知我不會那樣，最起碼寫出來讓以後有可能遇到這種情況的男子不會上當。而且她會繼續騙下去的。按理她的收入不錯，住着高級公寓，不會賤至此。只是她不再解釋和她的行為已經讓我真是頭一次見識這種人。
我又給她寫道：
I thought you did such cheap things before and you succeeded, so you think you can do it again and again. You think every man is shy to talk about it? No way. This time I will let you know having a free meal is not a free thing. Keep in????ed.
沒回應，再寫道:

I haven't used this email account to post ad for quite a long time. I was surprised to hear from you when I read your first email to me. I don't know where you got my ad. Why was I so unlucky to be your victim? You are just searching on the net to pick a potential victim who will pay you a meal?
還是沒回應，最後我昨天（7-11）又寫道:
You think this time you can still pass it over, as you did before, having some guys paying for you without any trouble? You are totally wrong. I will give you a lessson. I am not afraid someone discovers that I have involuntarily bought you a meal. I have to warn your other potential victims not to be taken advantage by a really CHEAP women like you. Wait a week or two, you cheap behavior will be criticized on rolia. I won't tell then your detailed in????ation but just let others comment on who is wrong, who is cheap. And also let other men be cautious about sort of cheap women like you. I will write in Chinese there for sure. What the hell let me know a cheap woman like you? Damn it!
我也懶得翻譯成中文。大致情況就是這樣，她也可能出來解釋，也可能繼續保持沉默。我也不會泄露她的個人資料。只是讓大家遇到這類人是要小心。
對於第一次見面就提出去餐館的女人又不提出付賬的，估計基本都是騙吃類的。
剛把這個貼字網址給她發去，讓她自己出來辯解，若她願意