第一次發貼, 因為這高人多,請幫忙分析一下. 多謝了.

本人最近換工作,原來公司認識的一位白人大姐(另外group的consultant,已經回到她原公司)聽說我要走,給我寫了以下email表示祝賀,還問我有沒有女朋友,沒有的話,要介紹個給我.

我當然很興奮,以為艷福來了(還有好奇,想看看她給我介紹的是白的,黃的還是黑的,是歪瓜劣棗還是美若天仙),馬上回了她的 email(見後), 表示我絕對單身,大家一定保持聯繫. 沒想到她就沒有給我再回了.

熬了一周,我忍不住又給她公司發了email(WSN嘛), 這次她回了,口氣完全不一樣了(原件附後),看樣子這事黃了.我百思不得其解,難道我就這樣被耍了?但她為什麼要耍我呢?一個中國WSN.

還是得罪她了? 想起來,我只有兩個地方得罪她了,一是她一個月前離開我公司時,留了email,但我沒有給她發過信(因為換工作太忙了).還有我在回她信時,沒有告訴她新公司名字,只告訴了地方,因為新公司比原公司好得多,但有點行業競爭,我想先保密,電話上再說.但這些都是很小的事吧? 女人心,真難猜啊. 請各位指點迷津, 她為什麼會想給我介紹女朋友? 我回信後, 她的態度為什麼會有這麼大變化? 是不是我太猴急了? 我這次該怎麼回她信呢?

BTW, 這位白人大姐人很好,不象其他老美中年女人那麼aggresive. 另外,她雖然人顯年輕, 但也四十多了,小孩都有兩個了,應該不可能對我有什麼興趣啦.

謝謝各位.

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她的第一封信:

Hi David:

I heard you're leaving for a new job.
So where will you be working?

I wish I could be at your farewell lunch tomorrow but I have to go to a meeting in San Diego.

It was nice to see you around the office. I wish you the best in all that you do.

Here is my email address: xxx@yahoo.com

Let's keep in touch.

You know what? I actually have a friend who I thought you might like.
I don't know if you have a girl friend but I thought I could introduce the two of you some time.
I hope you don't mind the suggestion. What do you think?

Best Regards,
Amy Winehouse

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我的當天回信:
Hi, Amy:

So glad to get your warm e-mail in my last day in Saddays Corporation. Thanks.
Sorry I didn't send you e-mail earlier because the last several weeks
were quite busy for me (in transition period). I was planning to
update my info after I settle down in the new company.

Also thank you for your consideration because I don't have a
girlfriend right now and I think your suggestion is great. My phone is
8888888. I am going to a company in City of Paradise. I will call you in
the weekend to talk more with you. Could you give me your number and
let me know what time is good to call you?

Thanks again and talk to you soon.

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她就沒回信了 (很奇怪,很突兀). 我的一周后的第二封信(給她的公司信箱):
Hi, Amy:

Thanks again for your e-mail in my last day in Saddays Corporation. I replied your e-mail last Tuesday, I am afraid you havn't got that e-mail which was
sent to your yahoo address. Or maybe you were too busy to check
the emails from that yahoo address. Anyway, it will be great if
you could receive this e-mail. I hope everything is good with you and
I really appreciate your help in my years in Saddays Corporation. Keep in touch and talk to you later!

thanks,

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她的當天回信:
Hi David,

I did get your email. Sorry I didn't respond.
Keep me posted on how things are going.
I will talk to my friend again and see if she is still interested in meeting
you.
So what are you doing now? How is everything going?

Amy