先對那菜兄唱個大諾，不好意思，昨天搶了你的麥克風。不為別的，只為交流。

上文忘了交代一句，這“相識篇”是關鍵，萬事開頭難嘛，我就多費點筆墨。

實例二：要幽默風趣。敢開有色玩笑。

一個周五我約好倆老外在BAR里見。進去後發現一奇怪現象：這倆哥們(都身高6尺，相貌堂堂) 與倆PPMM只隔一個空位，自己聊自己的，倆MM也一樣。我一個健步搶到那個位子，先與哥們打過招呼，就掏出煙了，(有一MM抽煙) ，開始裝模作樣的找火，(打火機就在兜里) 。5秒鐘後，開始跟MM套瓷：

“Can I borrow your light?” (自然地開始)

“Sure。”

“So， What’s the topic today?”( 進一步找話題)

“We are talkin’bout West Virginia。”

“Oh, what about it?” (要搞清楚，才能有地放矢)

“You heard sometimes they…”(倆MM是指WV的農民亂倫問題)

“Ah, THAT! (要裝內行)I know. That’s why someone said, we should moving O.J Simpson’s trial to West Virginia, cus they all have the same DNA!” (不久前剛聽來的有色笑話，現買現賣)

哈哈哈哈！倆MM笑得花枝亂顫，我趕緊跟上一句，給哥們做介紹：

“Hey, This is S and K, I am Lonehand and you are…”

“I am Jennifer and this is Kim.”

“Nice to meet you.” 。。。

話題打開了，那晚上我們5個還一同ORDER了吃的，交換了號碼。。。

實例三：要與眾不同，敢於嘗試。

還是BAR里，三個MM在高聲談笑，我要了杯啤的，轉身，故作自然的插話：

“What’s so funny?”

“Diana just got engaged.”

“Oh, congratulations! Let me see the ring.” (要表示對結婚有興趣)

“Sure.”

(要大大方方的拉過MM的手，細細端詳)

“Nice! I always have a question about the ring, Can you guys help me with that?”

“shoot.”

“That’s a nice ring. I am always wondering how important the ring is to a girl, let's assume just for 1 min, if I buy a bigger ring than that now, what would you say?” (此乃與眾不同，目的是要Impress 另一個沒定婚的MM)

“I am ALL yours!”

哈哈哈。大家都笑。

。。。。。。。。。。

笑過後，另一MM果然開口：

“So, what you do for a living?”

“I am an engineer..."

(上鈎了，大功告成也) 。。。

綜上所述，在相識的過程中，要“敢”字當頭，拿出點無產階級的大無畏精神，這也是為什麼基礎篇講的是個人問題，那是自信心的基礎

(待續)