第一次发贴, 因为这高人多,请帮忙分析一下. 多谢了.

本人最近换工作,原来公司认识的一位白人大姐(另外group的consultant,已经回到她原公司)听说我要走,给我写了以下email表示祝贺,还问我有没有女朋友,没有的话,要介绍个给我.

我当然很兴奋,以为艳福来了(还有好奇,想看看她给我介绍的是白的,黄的还是黑的,是歪瓜劣枣还是美若天仙),马上回了她的 email(见后), 表示我绝对单身,大家一定保持联系. 没想到她就没有给我再回了.

熬了一周,我忍不住又给她公司发了email(WSN嘛), 这次她回了,口气完全不一样了(原件附后),看样子这事黄了.我百思不得其解,难道我就这样被耍了?但她为什么要耍我呢?一个中国WSN.

还是得罪她了? 想起来,我只有两个地方得罪她了,一是她一个月前离开我公司时,留了email,但我没有给她发过信(因为换工作太忙了).还有我在回她信时,没有告诉她新公司名字,只告诉了地方,因为新公司比原公司好得多,但有点行业竞争,我想先保密,电话上再说.但这些都是很小的事吧? 女人心,真难猜啊. 请各位指点迷津, 她为什么会想给我介绍女朋友? 我回信后, 她的态度为什么会有这么大变化? 是不是我太猴急了? 我这次该怎么回她信呢?

BTW, 这位白人大姐人很好,不象其他老美中年女人那么aggresive. 另外,她虽然人显年轻, 但也四十多了,小孩都有两个了,应该不可能对我有什么兴趣啦.

谢谢各位.

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她的第一封信:

Hi David:

I heard you're leaving for a new job.
So where will you be working?

I wish I could be at your farewell lunch tomorrow but I have to go to a meeting in San Diego.

It was nice to see you around the office. I wish you the best in all that you do.

Here is my email address: xxx@yahoo.com

Let's keep in touch.

You know what? I actually have a friend who I thought you might like.
I don't know if you have a girl friend but I thought I could introduce the two of you some time.
I hope you don't mind the suggestion. What do you think?

Best Regards,
Amy Winehouse

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我的当天回信:
Hi, Amy:

So glad to get your warm e-mail in my last day in Saddays Corporation. Thanks.
Sorry I didn't send you e-mail earlier because the last several weeks
were quite busy for me (in transition period). I was planning to
update my info after I settle down in the new company.

Also thank you for your consideration because I don't have a
girlfriend right now and I think your suggestion is great. My phone is
8888888. I am going to a company in City of Paradise. I will call you in
the weekend to talk more with you. Could you give me your number and
let me know what time is good to call you?

Thanks again and talk to you soon.

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她就没回信了 (很奇怪,很突兀). 我的一周后的第二封信(给她的公司信箱):
Hi, Amy:

Thanks again for your e-mail in my last day in Saddays Corporation. I replied your e-mail last Tuesday, I am afraid you havn't got that e-mail which was
sent to your yahoo address. Or maybe you were too busy to check
the emails from that yahoo address. Anyway, it will be great if
you could receive this e-mail. I hope everything is good with you and
I really appreciate your help in my years in Saddays Corporation. Keep in touch and talk to you later!

thanks,

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她的当天回信:
Hi David,

I did get your email. Sorry I didn't respond.
Keep me posted on how things are going.
I will talk to my friend again and see if she is still interested in meeting
you.
So what are you doing now? How is everything going?

Amy