先对那菜兄唱个大诺，不好意思，昨天抢了你的麦克风。不为别的，只为交流。

上文忘了交代一句，这“相识篇”是关键，万事开头难嘛，我就多费点笔墨。

实例二：要幽默风趣。敢开有色玩笑。

一个周五我约好俩老外在BAR里见。进去后发现一奇怪现象：这俩哥们(都身高6尺，相貌堂堂) 与俩PPMM只隔一个空位，自己聊自己的，俩MM也一样。我一个健步抢到那个位子，先与哥们打过招呼，就掏出烟了，(有一MM抽烟) ，开始装模作样的找火，(打火机就在兜里) 。5秒钟后，开始跟MM套瓷：

“Can I borrow your light?” (自然地开始)

“Sure。”

“So， What’s the topic today?”( 进一步找话题)

“We are talkin’bout West Virginia。”

“Oh, what about it?” (要搞清楚，才能有地放矢)

“You heard sometimes they…”(俩MM是指WV的农民乱伦问题)

“Ah, THAT! (要装内行)I know. That’s why someone said, we should moving O.J Simpson’s trial to West Virginia, cus they all have the same DNA!” (不久前刚听来的有色笑话，现买现卖)

哈哈哈哈！俩MM笑得花枝乱颤，我赶紧跟上一句，给哥们做介绍：

“Hey, This is S and K, I am Lonehand and you are…”

“I am Jennifer and this is Kim.”

“Nice to meet you.” 。。。

话题打开了，那晚上我们5个还一同ORDER了吃的，交换了号码。。。

实例三：要与众不同，敢于尝试。

还是BAR里，三个MM在高声谈笑，我要了杯啤的，转身，故作自然的插话：

“What’s so funny?”

“Diana just got engaged.”

“Oh, congratulations! Let me see the ring.” (要表示对结婚有兴趣)

“Sure.”

(要大大方方的拉过MM的手，细细端详)

“Nice! I always have a question about the ring, Can you guys help me with that?”

“shoot.”

“That’s a nice ring. I am always wondering how important the ring is to a girl, let's assume just for 1 min, if I buy a bigger ring than that now, what would you say?” (此乃与众不同，目的是要Impress 另一个没定婚的MM)

“I am ALL yours!”

哈哈哈。大家都笑。

。。。。。。。。。。

笑过后，另一MM果然开口：

“So, what you do for a living?”

“I am an engineer..."

(上钩了，大功告成也) 。。。

综上所述，在相识的过程中，要“敢”字当头，拿出点无产阶级的大无畏精神，这也是为什么基础篇讲的是个人问题，那是自信心的基础

(待续)