1. the HEs were looking for and interviewing people to adopt Anna Mei several
months BEFORE she was born; even after the HEs signed the document to transfer
Anna Mei's custody over to the Bakers, the HEs have brought at least two
other couples to see Anna Mei and see whether the couples were interested
in adopting the little girl. Mrs. HE also mentioned of giving Anna Mei to
her lawyer because they could not pay for the law suit fee.”

贺在小孩出生前就在寻找和面见一些愿意收养贺梅的夫妇。
签署了监护权转移的文件之后，贺仍在继续面见不同的夫妇，问他们是否有意收养贺梅。
贺并且提到将小女孩给他的律师，因为他们不可能付的起诉讼费用。

——看清楚了，纯粹是在卖婴。O。K。荒谬到极点了。官司打赢后，贺梅一样是要被送给律师的，那为什么还要打这场官司？很有可能贺后悔打官司，但是烂摊子铺的开来收不回来，他最CARE的还是钱，还律师钱最重要，重要过自己的女儿。
这点是可以提供人证的。

2. the HEs asked Anna Mei to call the Bakers mommy and daddy, and addressed
themselves as Uncle Jack and Casey. Anna can talk at the time.”

这个证据不好找。

3. the Bakers had no intention of adopting Anna Mei from the beginning
at all. It is Mr. HE who suggested the Bakers to adopt Anna Mei.”

这个不好说。

“4. the HEs took advantage of the Bakers' care/love for Anna Mei. It seems
that the Bakers were at first not interested in adopting Anna. Mr. HE then
told Mr. Baker that Anna would be sent back to China where 50% of the baby
girls died. Mr. Baker cried, and agreed to take Anna Mei into his family.
”

我愿意相信贺恶意夸大国内女性地位低下的状况。他自己就是个不尊重女性的最恰当不过的例子，否则不会在结婚前还试图以假文件把另一个女性办出国，就不会和现任老婆一见面就让对方怀孕，在老婆早产后一个月内再次让老婆怀孕，并且把病弱的女儿交给别人寄养。

5. Mr. HE lied on quite some occasions, even under oath, for instance,
about his income to secure new car loan, about his marriage status. Many
things he told the media were also not true.”

撒谎就是撒谎，唯一可以原谅的撒谎是：不图给自己添加利益，而是为他人的利益而撒谎的谎言。贺的谎言都是为了谋求自己的私利，所以没有可以谅解的地方。

题外问题，为什么不买旧车而要买新车？

6. the HEs said they could not care Anna Mei due to financial situations.
However, the court found that the HEs took many vocation trips during that
period, and bought unnecessary goods, e.g. new car and new computer (between
Anna Mei's 1 and 2 birthdays).”

经济原因根本是借口。他们不是穷，而是一个婴儿的存在，防碍了贺的老婆出去打工挣钱的计划。当然第二第三的孩子的出生，彻底使罗秦死了挣钱的心，因此回心转意想要回女儿。