Yes, what you feel is quite right. It is also the way Chinese will follow, even though most of them dare not admit. We can go further, ask ourselves why. Why is there so much difference between the 2 countries or cultures? The answer is simple: Chinese is still in agricultural way of thinking. Simply put, most of Chinese are peasants. Even though some of them are not, their philosophy and their way to thinking are still peasantslike. The pity is that most of Chinese leaders are in this way of thinking.