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老譚:在女兒婚禮上的致詞
送交者: 老譚 2015年07月15日14:32:13 於 [茗香茶語] 發送悄悄話

今天是我,以及我的夫人,一生中最為幸福的日子。我的女兒在今天與他心愛的人走進了婚禮的殿堂,結為終生伴侶,開始他們新的人生。當我挽着女兒手走進婚禮,把我們唯一心愛的女兒交給她的先生的時侯,我沒有任何的失落感,因為我們相信我女兒的眼光和選擇,她嫁給了可以託付終生的人。他們今天喜結良緣,終成眷屬,今後一定會履行在婚禮上的莊嚴承諾,相互關愛照顧,相互體諒包容,相互支持進步。無論今後是否富貴貧窮,都會不離不棄,謹守婚姻的責任與神聖,相敬如賓,白頭偕老。

今天我們也感到驕傲,不僅是為我的女兒。她選擇了一位優秀英俊的青年為丈夫,也為我們增加一個陽光有為的兒子。我們也為我們新兒子感到驕傲,他能夠娶我們漂亮能幹的女兒為妻,一定是前世姻緣,現世情份。一個來自遙遠的中國,另一個來自遙遠的塞爾維亞,他們在童年來到加拿大,在茫茫的人海中相遇相戀,結為夫妻,這難道不是奇蹟嗎?沒有前世的姻緣和今世的情份是不可能的。為此,我相信他們的婚姻註定會是幸福美滿的。在這裡,我得感謝我們的親家,正是他們培養了這麼好的兒子,也為我和我的妻子培養了這麼優秀的女婿。

女兒,從你呱呱墜地到牙牙學語,從你蹣跚學步到看圖識字;從牽着爸爸的手一步一步踏進幼兒園時那個聰明伶俐的孩童,到站在高中畢業典禮上那個亭亭玉立的漂亮小姑娘.....;在父母呵護下長大的那些日子,一幕一幕,歷歷在目,其中的每一個精彩的片段都會時常會浮現在我的眼前。七歲跟着父母親離開家鄉漂泊到加拿大,初到異國上時遭遇的文化衝突和語言困惑而留下許多有趣的故事,至今父母仍在津津樂道。練鋼琴是一件既枯燥又乏味的“苦差”,可你從四歲堅持到高中畢業,並且通過了各種考級,最後還勤工儉學在一所音樂學校當了三年鋼琴“小”老師。你一手鋼琴彈得美妙動聽,給我和你媽媽帶來過那麼多的歡樂。還有你自作主張,把French Immersion Program堅持到高中,並以優異的成績高中畢業。要知道,你可是你們學校雙語高中畢業生中唯一一個沒有任何法語背景的學生!儘管你現在不說法語了,我們仍然以此為榮。

讀大學後就離開父母,自己獨立生活。從此一切都自己作主,再也沒有讓父母操過一點點心。在大學本科畢業後到銀行工作,其間並通過了各級金融分析師資格考試,然後再繼續修完MBA課程,現在又到保險公司工作。每一次人生的選擇和實踐都讓我們稱心如意,倍感欣慰:讀書時成績優秀,工作時業績出色,談戀愛找到稱心的人,準備婚禮做得井井有條......。

今天, 當女兒成為新娘的時侯, 爸爸媽媽想對你說: 從今天起,你不僅是我們的乖女兒,你也是一位妻子,一位兒媳婦,今後你也會養兒育女,成為母親。因此,你的生活將會改變,將更多地面對真實的婚姻生活:平平淡淡的柴米油鹽,實實在在的鍋碗瓢盆,平凡瑣碎。對你來說這也許新的挑戰,但我們相信你一定準備好了,而且,以你的善良、智慧和能力,以遺傳在你身上的中國人傳統美德,你一定會做得很好!把家庭經營得和和睦睦,夫妻間相互尊重,禮貌待人,永遠做一個自強自立,漂亮的有魅力的女人。總之,在任何情況下,爸爸媽媽都會一如既往全心全意地支持你;我相信你的公公婆婆以及所有親人朋友們,也會像爸爸媽媽一樣,關心你,愛護你,支持你! 

各位來賓們,先生們女士們,衷心地感謝你們來參加我女兒的婚禮,與我們分享婚禮的歡樂。同時我要特別地感謝我的親友們,你們從渥太華,蒙特利爾,新加坡,中國內地趕來參加我女兒的婚禮,我們是榮幸之至!衷心祝願各位身體健康、工作順利,合家幸福,萬事如意!

女兒和女婿, 你們的幸福就是父母最大的心願!祝願你們幸福一生,一生幸福!最後希望你們要帶着感恩的心,回報各位親友們多年來對你們的關懷和厚愛。


英文原稿

Hi everyone, I am the father of the bride. On behalf of my wife  and myself, I would like to thank all of you for coming to attend our daughter's wedding, as today also marks one of the happiest days of our lives. Today, our daughter and her love of life, have started their new lives together as husband and wife.  Today when I walked my only daughter down the aisle and led her to husband-to-be, I did not feel any sorrow. As they made their vows to each other today – for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer – I truly believe that our daughter found her lifelong partner.

Today we felt immense pride, not only for our daughter, but also for her choice in such an intelligent and handsome young man. We believe that karma brought them together from distant Serbia and faraway China. It was a wonder that they not only encountered love while growing up in Canada, but also married each other today. For this reason, I believe their marriage is bound to be a happy and fulfilling one. At this moment, I would like to sincerely thank daughter’s parents-in-law, for raising such a good son and giving us such a good son-in-law.

My daughter, from your birth to your first steps, to your first words, to the first day I walked you to kindergarten, day by day, year after year, up to your high school graduation, I still remember all the important moments as you grew up and became who you are today. Even though you don’t like to play piano, you stuck it out for 14 years and became a wonderful pianist. Your music brought us so much joy. You also put yourself through French Immersion and graduated from your high school French Immersion class as the only student who did not have a French background. You have done so many things to make us proud.

You left us at 18 when you went to university and started living your life independently from us. You decided to further your education by obtaining the CFA designation and completing your MBA study. Every decision you made has led you to become the successful lady working in the financial industry. 

Today, your mom and dad would like to let you know: Starting from this day forward you are no longer just our daughter. You are also a wife, a daughter-in-law, and tomorrow you may have your own children and become a mother. As such, there will be many more changes and challenges that you will face in your life. However, we believe that you are ready for anything that life will throw at you, given your kindness, intellect, capability, and especially with your loving husband by your side. Mom and dad will always be there for you guys under any circumstances, and I am sure your mother-in-law and father-in-law, as well as all of your other loved ones, will also be by your side to support you as you embark on your journey as husband and wife. 

To all our guests who have come near and far to be with us today, we would like to sincerely thank you for coming to share in our happiness. I would also like to sincerely thank our old friends as well as our relatives, who came all the way here from Ottawa, Montreal, Singapore and China. We are very honoured to have all of you here, and we would like to wish all of you good health, success in work and family, and every happiness.

My daughter and son-in-law, your happiness is our biggest wish as parents. We wish you a lifetime of joy. Cheers.


 



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